Fashion knows no size: How to dress chic, colorful and confident – ​​every day

Many years ago, I worked at a large tax firm—and we can all imagine what the dress code was like: business casual, expectations high. Me? Not only did I absolutely love buying high-street and designer pieces, but I also wore leopard print when I felt like it. I wore color when I felt like it. And in the summer, I might even wear a flowing maxi dress. And designer bags? Let's not even get started. I loved it—just like Fran Drescher used to love The Nanny . I loved the show not just for the stories, but because it showed that fashion is a stage—bold, colorful, and daring. I realized: Style is not dependent on size – style is expression.

"Looking so smart today? What else are you doing today?"

The phrase we've probably all heard, and which I've heard countless times myself. The question is: Who are we to dictate to others what they should wear? We're all under pressure to conform – often out of obligation, but often also out of fear of others' opinions. Fashion can be more than that.

Unlike Fran Drescher, I wore a size 46 instead of a size 36 – and yet I embraced fashion, because it knows no body boundaries. It's not about "larger sizes can be simple" – but rather: "I can dress stylishly, boldly, colorfully, regardless of my size." Style and fashion should come from self-love – not just for a date, an event, or a meeting.

A gray day simply feels less gray in a cool outfit! But how do you take the first steps towards change? The crucial moment is when you decide to finally live fashion for yourself – and not for expectations.

How to overcome shame and expectations

Start small: Begin with a splash of color or a statement accessory instead of immediately choosing a striking outfit.

Remember your motivation: Ask yourself: "Why do I want to wear this?" Joy and self-expression count more than other people's opinions.

Turn negative thoughts around: Instead of "People find me strange" → "I'm showing who I am."

Seek inspiration: Role models like Ashley Graham, Iris Apfel, or people in your environment who show that fashion can be fun.

Experiment without judgment: Put together little dressing sessions at home, take mirror selfies or photos – not for social media, but for yourself. This way you'll discover which looks truly feel like you.

Practice visibility: Consciously wear something you love – even if you still feel insecure. Over time, your self-confidence will grow.

Accept stares: There will be curious glances – but they do not determine your worth.

Styling tips for boldness & color – regardless of size

Use color and pattern choices consciously

Yes: leopard print, bright colors, maxi dresses – all of that is allowed! I wore color when I felt like it. Patterns are fun – even in size 46 or larger. It's not about dressing up, it's about style.

Combining fit and comfort

Style without compromising on comfort. Choose clothes that make you feel good and reflect your style. Comfort doesn't have to be at odds with style.

Accessories as a style booster

Statement bags, jewelry, shoes – accessories can elevate your outfit. If you're unsure about size or style, choose an accessory as a starting point.

Conclusion – Your style, your decision

Fashion is an expression of your character – not a measure of your greatness.

You can dress smartly, colorfully, boldly, and stylishly every day. Not just for one occasion. Today. Every day.

My name is Jennifer Sholana, and I like to dress up – all the time, not just when there's a special occasion.

Because style has nothing to do with occasion, but with attitude.

FAQs

How do I find my style as a plus-size woman?

Realize: Style knows no size. Try colors, patterns, cuts – find what makes you shine.

Am I allowed to wear patterns and bold colors even if I am taller?

Yes – patterns and colors are style tools. No obstacle. Your outfit should bring you joy.

What to do when faced with critical looks at work or in everyday life?

Remember: Your choice is yours. Looks say more about others than about you. Attitude matters.

How can I gradually expand my comfort zone when it comes to style?

Start small: A splash of color or an accessory. A one-week challenge. Step by step.

Who are you? What do you like to wear? And what has held you back so far? I hope you were able to take something away from this blog.